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Sep09

6 Daily Tweaks To Strengthen Your Self-Love

For your deepest duas to come forth, you need to be in a place where you can receive them...

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3 Ways To Stop Obsessing Over It ✨ ⁣
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1. Keep your self-love on point 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏻You can’t call in love/ miracles/ joy/ abundance if you’re hanging out in fear town. When you’re stuck in doubt/ fear/ lack, that’s all you become available for. There’s literally no room for love and abundance to come your way because you’re unconsciously committed to staying where you are. ⁣
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2. Make yourself a priority ✨ You are your number one. Soo cheesy, right? 😆 When you drop yourself at the expense of others, you abandon yourself. In doing so, you chase and obsess over things/people to fill that void within but instead you’re left feeling drained, hopeless and depleted. Your self abandonment is being heightened, amplified and reflected back to you.⁣
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3. What brings you joy? What makes you feel whole again? 💗 Nourish your heart and soul, because when you do you stop waiting and chasing things and people to give you that. In filling yourself up, you’re able to drop the neediness and surrender. And surrendering is the key to becoming magnetic to your desires ✨For every miracle you hear, there is always a moment of deeply surrendering and handing it over to Allah 💖⁣
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Without surrendering to Allah, you can't move forw

Without surrendering to Allah, you can't move forward ✨💗⁣
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Without surrendering to Allah, you keep reacting to your current reality. You keep trying to meddle with the process. Or figure out the 'how'. But it was never your place to know how it'll happen. ⁣
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For you to up-level to the next stage of your life, stop reacting to your current one. Emotionally stop feeding into what you don't want. ⁣
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For that to happen, surrender to what Allah has decreed for you. When you accept the fear, it loses it's hold over you. There’s something in this moment for you. ⁣
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Some of the hardest moments of my life, where followed by some of the happiest moments. Because in that despair, you're able to find the strength of your own self-love. ⁣
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The moment you stop fighting your reality/ wishing it was different is the moment you can take on the lessons from it. The moment you stop fighting it is the moment you can choose something new. The moment you stop wishing it was different is the moment you can step into what you do want. Instead of fighting the old, you focus on building the new.⁣
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But it starts with surrendering to Allah. Not sweeping it under the rug. Not pretending it's not there by wishful thinking. ⁣
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It's saying "Okay, Allah this really, really hurts but I can surrender. I can accept it even if every part of me resists it."⁣
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To move forward, surrender. You can't build something new if you keep fighting with the past. You can't build something new if your stuck in the fear/ lack/ despair of your current situation. ⁣
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Always remember: ⁣
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+ There's something in this moment for you ✨Know that Allah would never put you in any situation expect that it serves you. It's here because it's soo necessary for your spiritual and emotional growth. ⁣
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+ Allah will still bring you closer to your desires through it ✨ This isn't the end. Surrendering to Allah is not giving up. It's accepting this current moment so that you can free yourself from the pain surrounding it and step into something new. You've got to surrender, to move beyond it. It's knowing that this moment is a stepping a tone, a bridge of events not your permanent destination. ⁣
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Delays in your duas are wonderful opportunities of

Delays in your duas are wonderful opportunities of healing ✨⁣
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See, it's not just about getting what you prayed for. Allah could make that happen instantly. You wouldn't have to wait. But there's a purpose behind every delay. An opportunity of healing.⁣
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How many people have you seen receive their dreams only for it to be the reason of their self-destruction?⁣
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Every delay serves a purpose - maybe it's so that you appreciate it fully for when it comes. Maybe it's calling you to heal the heaviest parts of your soul, the pain lingering from the past and societal conditioning that are taking you away from what you want. Maybe the wait is polishing your heart from attachment and need to none other than Allah.⁣
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If you're in the middle of a delay, what is this opportunity creating space for? What does Allah want from you? What are you ready to step into? What is this space (this delay of your dua) calling you towards? ⁣
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Allah has something in this moment for you💗You are never left empty ✨⁣

What happens when you make dua but you see the com

What happens when you make dua but you see the complete opposite happening?✨⁣
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This is a question that I've received many times. Do you keep making dua against all odds? When do you give up? I'm going to break it down for you as much as possible...⁣
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1) The State Of Your Heart Matters Most 💗⁣
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I can't tell you how many stories I've heard of women making dua "...please Allah don't let him get married again/ don't let him cheat on me/ if this is going to hurt me, don't give it to me..."⁣
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Guess what happens?⁣
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Yeah...the exact opposite, the very thing that you feared and desperately held onto. What you're saying with your tongue is also as important as the state of your heart in which you ask Allah.⁣
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Have you ever looked up into the sky, your heart stirred with deep emotions, misty-eyed. You didn't have to say a word but Allah heard you. Sometimes before you're even able to process those feelings into words, Allah answers your callings. That's the power of your intention and tapping into the state of your heart⁣
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You can't be saying with your tongue what your heart doesn't believe to be true. Words are easy - it's easy to say "... but I trust Allah, but I made dua". But does your heart align with that? Is your faith in Allah being carried through your thoughts, feelings and actions?⁣
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2) Release Attachment/ Neediness ✨⁣
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Attachment to the outcome is what keeps you stuck in your current circumstance. Its when you place your dua on a pedestal. Believing that once you get what you prayed for, you're no longer going to feel this pain. It's when your riddled with anxiety, resistance and fear. It's when your actions say "Allah, what you've given me today isn't enough, I need X to happen to stop feeling this pain/lack".⁣
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When you come from a place of ingratitude to Allah, it's no surprise that things aren't working out. When you place your dua on such a pedestal ( ie. a specific person/ wanting a child/ income and lifestyle goals etc.) that you forget how beautiful and equally precious the rest of your life is.⁣
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You're attached to the fear of it not happening. When so much of your heart and energy is invested in fear... keep reading below ✨

What does your heart need today? 💗✨⁣ ⁣ Th

What does your heart need today? 💗✨⁣
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The relationship that you have with your heart is mirrored through the relationships you have with others. Is it difficult to receive love? Is it hard to feel emotionally fulfilled in your relationships? Is there an unmet need that keeps coming up?⁣
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How you attend to your own heart is often mirrored through the relationships you have with others.⁣
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If your craving commitment, affection, unconditional love, are you cultivating these for your heart? Are you devoted to your own heart? (Before you seek someone else to give you that). Are you listening to your heart’s knowings and whispers? (Before you realise that others aren’t giving you that).⁣
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Are you tending to your heart’s needs?⁣
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Are you holding space for your deepest, heaviest emotions without any judgment before you expect your husband to open up to you? Whatever you seek out there, starts from within.⁣
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Ask your heart, what does she need today? 💗⁣
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Maybe she needs you to focus and commit to her fully. Maybe she needs you to give yourself the love/ approval/ attention that you seek from others. Maybe she needs you to cultivate space for her. To hold space for her heaviest, murkiest emotions. To let her feel her deepest, happiest emotions. Maybe she needs you to follow through on your desires and not give up on her. Maybe she needs you to go back to Allah.⁣
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What does your heart need today? ✨⁣
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The best dua tip that I could give you is to know

The best dua tip that I could give you is to know that it’s done ✨Know that it’s been heard by Allah. Know that He has a greater plan for you ✨Know that He will and already has answered your deepest duas in ways that you couldn’t have ever imagined. Know that it’s done ✨⁣
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There isn’t anything more for you to figure out - Allah has the plan. There isn’t anything logical or strategic to work out - Allah’s plan can surpass the logical limitations of people and this world. ⁣
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For you, stay focused on the end. Keep your heart attached to Allah, look not at your feet but at what could be ✨⁣
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For you to believe in your duas which are not here yet, you’ve got to stop looking at your current reality for proof and reassurance. Look past your current circumstances and keep your heart focused on the end - know that Allah has a way out for you. Know that you’ve been heard. Know that it is done ✨⁣
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Where you are today is not a reflection of where you’re going to be in a few months or years time ✨⁣
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