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What happens when you make dua but you see the com

What happens when you make dua but you see the complete opposite happening?✨⁣
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This is a question that I've received many times. Do you keep making dua against all odds? When do you give up? I'm going to break it down for you as much as possible...⁣
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1) The State Of Your Heart Matters Most 💗⁣
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I can't tell you how many stories I've heard of women making dua "...please Allah don't let him get married again/ don't let him cheat on me/ if this is going to hurt me, don't give it to me..."⁣
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Guess what happens?⁣
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Yeah...the exact opposite, the very thing that you feared and desperately held onto. What you're saying with your tongue is also as important as the state of your heart in which you ask Allah.⁣
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Have you ever looked up into the sky, your heart stirred with deep emotions, misty-eyed. You didn't have to say a word but Allah heard you. Sometimes before you're even able to process those feelings into words, Allah answers your callings. That's the power of your intention and tapping into the state of your heart⁣
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You can't be saying with your tongue what your heart doesn't believe to be true. Words are easy - it's easy to say "... but I trust Allah, but I made dua". But does your heart align with that? Is your faith in Allah being carried through your thoughts, feelings and actions?⁣
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2) Release Attachment/ Neediness ✨⁣
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Attachment to the outcome is what keeps you stuck in your current circumstance. Its when you place your dua on a pedestal. Believing that once you get what you prayed for, you're no longer going to feel this pain. It's when your riddled with anxiety, resistance and fear. It's when your actions say "Allah, what you've given me today isn't enough, I need X to happen to stop feeling this pain/lack".⁣
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When you come from a place of ingratitude to Allah, it's no surprise that things aren't working out. When you place your dua on such a pedestal ( ie. a specific person/ wanting a child/ income and lifestyle goals etc.) that you forget how beautiful and equally precious the rest of your life is.⁣
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You're attached to the fear of it not happening. When so much of your heart and energy is invested in fear... keep reading below ✨

What does your heart need today? 💗✨⁣ ⁣ Th

What does your heart need today? 💗✨⁣
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The relationship that you have with your heart is mirrored through the relationships you have with others. Is it difficult to receive love? Is it hard to feel emotionally fulfilled in your relationships? Is there an unmet need that keeps coming up?⁣
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How you attend to your own heart is often mirrored through the relationships you have with others.⁣
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If your craving commitment, affection, unconditional love, are you cultivating these for your heart? Are you devoted to your own heart? (Before you seek someone else to give you that). Are you listening to your heart’s knowings and whispers? (Before you realise that others aren’t giving you that).⁣
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Are you tending to your heart’s needs?⁣
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Are you holding space for your deepest, heaviest emotions without any judgment before you expect your husband to open up to you? Whatever you seek out there, starts from within.⁣
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Ask your heart, what does she need today? 💗⁣
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Maybe she needs you to focus and commit to her fully. Maybe she needs you to give yourself the love/ approval/ attention that you seek from others. Maybe she needs you to cultivate space for her. To hold space for her heaviest, murkiest emotions. To let her feel her deepest, happiest emotions. Maybe she needs you to follow through on your desires and not give up on her. Maybe she needs you to go back to Allah.⁣
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What does your heart need today? ✨⁣
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The best dua tip that I could give you is to know

The best dua tip that I could give you is to know that it’s done ✨Know that it’s been heard by Allah. Know that He has a greater plan for you ✨Know that He will and already has answered your deepest duas in ways that you couldn’t have ever imagined. Know that it’s done ✨⁣
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There isn’t anything more for you to figure out - Allah has the plan. There isn’t anything logical or strategic to work out - Allah’s plan can surpass the logical limitations of people and this world. ⁣
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For you, stay focused on the end. Keep your heart attached to Allah, look not at your feet but at what could be ✨⁣
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For you to believe in your duas which are not here yet, you’ve got to stop looking at your current reality for proof and reassurance. Look past your current circumstances and keep your heart focused on the end - know that Allah has a way out for you. Know that you’ve been heard. Know that it is done ✨⁣
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Where you are today is not a reflection of where you’re going to be in a few months or years time ✨⁣
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One of my longest duas happened last month (Januar

One of my longest duas happened last month (January 2020).⁣
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After 5+ years of setting the same goal over and over again (and over again!), it finally happened ✨💃🏻 🙈I want to breakdown everything that happened with you, so that you can apply the same principles to your duas + dreams. Let's begin!⁣
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1) Timing means nothing:⁣
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It took me 5+ years to get here. Which means:⁣
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a) Uhh hello...I can be very lazy hehe⁣
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b) Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I had no sob story or meaning attached to the timing. Not once did it come to mind that "I've been trying for 5+ years, maybe it's not meant for me. Maybe Allah has something better for me. Why is it taking so long?..." - the time it took to get here meant nothing. You almost lovingly detach from your past experiences and circumstances. Your heart isn't stuck in the past or stubborn over the future.⁣
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2) You must see where you're going:⁣
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You must have your end dua and dream in sight with little resistance or fear. When you release the resistance and fear, you get on with life. You're able to expect the best from Allah without letting your fears get in the way. You don't always have to know 'how' it's going to happen but you do need to know what you truly desire + believe and trust that Allah can absolutely make it happen for you. When you trust Allah, your heart softens. For the most part, you're relaxed, at ease and expecting the best from Him.⁣
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3) Show up in your feminine energy:⁣
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There where moments where I felt that need to try and force something to happen - where you push and fight against reality (ooh which only makes it stronger). I was quickly guided to centre back into my heart, back into my feminine energy. That place within yourself where you surrender to what Allah has given you right now. It's not a race to the end. It's not a fight for your dreams. Yess that moment when your duas are answered will be the most amazing feeling of awe, gratitude, relief, happiness but this moment is wonderful too. Your duas are so much more than just getting what you want.⁣
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4) Take aligned action from that place of flow:⁣
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Sometimes the miracles in your duas requires aligned action...Continued in comments below✨

Stop using your past to define your future 💗⁣

Stop using your past to define your future 💗⁣
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This is why the time it takes for your dua's + dreams to appear is irrelevant. Your past has no bearing on your future - you're not going that way. If you've been making dua for a very long time/ many years... it doesn't mean it's not written for you. Your past has no bearing on your future.⁣
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Your past conditions is not a reflection of what Allah can or cannot do - Allah is above every limit. The fact that it hasn't happened yet does not limit in any way what Allah can do for you now. Your past has no bearing on your future.⁣
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When you make dua, ask Allah knowing His magnificence, His infinite power not based on what you think is normal for you (i.e. your past conditions). Ask Allah with the end in mind - the version of you who is able to receive and sustain all that her heart desires. Not from your current or past circumstances.⁣
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The day to day decisions you make + the way you feel + the inspired actions + the thoughts you have should all come from that future version of you - the version of you who trusted Allah wholeheartedly, the version of you who took risks knowing that Allah will take care of you, the version of you who stopped looking at her current circumstances for reassurance and started looking towards Allah for ease.⁣
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Stop. Looking. At. Your. Past. Circumstances. To. Create. Your. Future. Can you tell how passionate am I about this?😆⁣
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If you let your past dictate your thoughts, feelings, actions, expectations of Allah today, you're constantly going to be stuck in a never ending cycle. That cycle ends when you stop feeding into it. When you realise that the past has no relevance to what Allah can do for you today. Just because it hasn't happened yet, it doesn't mean it's not coming. The fact that it hasn't happened yet is no indication to what's coming. (Can you see how when you have negative thoughts, you're looking back into your past to define your future?) You're looking back into your circumstances, past conditions, limitations to guide your future - which is a blank slate full of possibility.⁣
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Continued in the comments below 💖

As you make dua, truly remind yourself that Allah

As you make dua, truly remind yourself that Allah is above:⁣
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3. Circumstances⁣
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Allah doesn’t need a ‘time frame’ to create your duas. It can happen immediately. Allah is not limited in His Power and Might. Your resources of time, money and labour might look restricted but it’s not. There is no limit whatsoever to what Allah can give you. And there is no circumstance too great for Allah to change.⁣
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Absolutely nothing in these worlds is beyond Allah ✨
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This doesn’t mean that you won’t have setbacks or limitations but that when you stand before Allah, those limitations mean nothing. After all, you’re speaking to the King of Kings.⁣
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It means that your current reality doesn’t define your future. That what you see out there doesn’t weaken your trust in Allah and your faith in knowing that Allah can make a way out for you (regardless of what happens out there).⁣
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It’s less about looking out there for reassurance and more about looking within and reminding yourself of who you’re talking to 💗✨⁣

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