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Stop using your past to define your future 💗⁣

Stop using your past to define your future 💗⁣
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This is why the time it takes for your dua's + dreams to appear is irrelevant. Your past has no bearing on your future - you're not going that way. If you've been making dua for a very long time/ many years... it doesn't mean it's not written for you. Your past has no bearing on your future.⁣
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Your past conditions is not a reflection of what Allah can or cannot do - Allah is above every limit. The fact that it hasn't happened yet does not limit in any way what Allah can do for you now. Your past has no bearing on your future.⁣
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When you make dua, ask Allah knowing His magnificence, His infinite power not based on what you think is normal for you (i.e. your past conditions). Ask Allah with the end in mind - the version of you who is able to receive and sustain all that her heart desires. Not from your current or past circumstances.⁣
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The day to day decisions you make + the way you feel + the inspired actions + the thoughts you have should all come from that future version of you - the version of you who trusted Allah wholeheartedly, the version of you who took risks knowing that Allah will take care of you, the version of you who stopped looking at her current circumstances for reassurance and started looking towards Allah for ease.⁣
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Stop. Looking. At. Your. Past. Circumstances. To. Create. Your. Future. Can you tell how passionate am I about this?😆⁣
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If you let your past dictate your thoughts, feelings, actions, expectations of Allah today, you're constantly going to be stuck in a never ending cycle. That cycle ends when you stop feeding into it. When you realise that the past has no relevance to what Allah can do for you today. Just because it hasn't happened yet, it doesn't mean it's not coming. The fact that it hasn't happened yet is no indication to what's coming. (Can you see how when you have negative thoughts, you're looking back into your past to define your future?) You're looking back into your circumstances, past conditions, limitations to guide your future - which is a blank slate full of possibility.⁣
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Continued in the comments below 💖

As you make dua, truly remind yourself that Allah

As you make dua, truly remind yourself that Allah is above:⁣
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1. Time⁣
2. Money/ Resources ⁣
3. Circumstances⁣
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Allah doesn’t need a ‘time frame’ to create your duas. It can happen immediately. Allah is not limited in His Power and Might. Your resources of time, money and labour might look restricted but it’s not. There is no limit whatsoever to what Allah can give you. And there is no circumstance too great for Allah to change.⁣
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Absolutely nothing in these worlds is beyond Allah ✨
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This doesn’t mean that you won’t have setbacks or limitations but that when you stand before Allah, those limitations mean nothing. After all, you’re speaking to the King of Kings.⁣
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It means that your current reality doesn’t define your future. That what you see out there doesn’t weaken your trust in Allah and your faith in knowing that Allah can make a way out for you (regardless of what happens out there).⁣
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It’s less about looking out there for reassurance and more about looking within and reminding yourself of who you’re talking to 💗✨⁣

Do you feel sad or low after making dua? 💗⁣
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I harp on about pouring your heart into your duas as it helps with releasing any stored emotions. You pour your heart into you duas. You tell Allah everything. Yet what if you still feel low instead of uplifted? Sad instead of feeling like a weight has been lifted off your shoulder?⁣
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Here's the thing, when you feel worse after making dua, there's a good chance that it's opening a can of worms. ⁣
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A can of unwanted emotions, buried feelings, unhelpful thought patterns that have been avoided and pushed away for so long. ⁣
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Your duas happen to crack open that sea of repressed emotions buried all along.⁣
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Your duas, telling Allah everything, facing your fears, sitting with the emotional turmoil sometimes opens that can of worms. But the can of worms is still there whether you open it or not. (Something my life coach recently taught me!)⁣
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Yes it feels crappy.⁣
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Yes you feel like running far away from it.⁣
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Yes you can even feel like your duas aren't supporting you.⁣
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But it's only shining a light to what is already within you.⁣
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It's shining a light on the wounds that need be heard, healed and released.⁣
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So yes it can feel crappy at times. Those unsettling emotions and limiting thoughts need to come forth. They need to be heard to be challenged and released.⁣
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You can't keep fear, desperation, neediness, anger within without it chipping away at your own soul.⁣
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You can mask it with positivity. "Yeah that's not me. Alhumdulilah I'm good". But when the can is cracked open, that spiral of 'positivity' unravels very quickly.⁣
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Emotional strength doesn't come from just being happy all the time. The sourness in a lemonade makes it taste much better than sugared water ;) #cheesy⁣
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If this is you, ask yourself "What are my duas here to teach me?" Is it making you a better woman? Your dreams and duas are here to strengthen you. It's not just about receiving your duas but also the journey in which you become the woman who can emotionally sustain all that your heart desires. Yes Allah can give it right now but can you sustain it? ⁣
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(Continued in comments below ✨)

The most important work you'll ever do is on yours

The most important work you'll ever do is on yourself 💗⁣
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It's strengthening your relationship with Allah, your self-love, amping up your self-worth, giving yourself permission to receive all that your heart desires, healing wounds from the past that are holding you back today.⁣
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The inner work that you do for yourself is the biggest factor that will determine your happiness, success and abundance. There is no business plan, fitness boot camp, pregnancy app, the perfect partner, no strategy or external people/ circumstances that can replace your inner well-being.⁣
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You can't outsource your self-love.⁣
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It's not the business plan that makes the entrepreneur successful.⁣
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It's not the perfect spouse that makes the marriage work.⁣
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It's not the intense finesses plan that facilitates your dream body.⁣
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It's not the baby tech gadgets that makes a mother thrive.⁣
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It's you ✨ The woman behind all those things. It's your energy. Your beliefs. Your mindset. The way you think of Allah. The way you persist regardless of the setbacks.⁣
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Nourishing your soul is the most important work you'll ever do. There is no strategy, apps or plans that can replace it.⁣
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You. Are. So. Important. 💗⁣
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P.s If you're looking to up-level to call in your deepest desires, + would like 1-1 coaching support, message me directly to book in a free coaching call or click in the link in the bio ✨⁣
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Limited spaces apply 💗

The willingness to heal, release + grow from whate

The willingness to heal, release + grow from whatever Allah has given you matters in your duas. Allah could give you every desire you have in an instant. Everything could happen immediately. ⁣
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But you wouldn't be able to sustain it. ⁣
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You'd lose it very quickly, mess it up or push them away.⁣
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That's why the healing journey matters so much. Allah is not only preparing you to get there but to keep it. To sustain it. To cherish it for a lifetime. ⁣
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Are your duas making you a better woman? Is this strengthening your connection with Allah? Are you willing to heal? Are you becoming happier, lighter, more radiant and glowy each day? Are you learning to trust Allah even more than ever? 💗⁣
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When your duas are supporting you into becoming a happier woman, emotionally stronger, freer, less attached to the outcome, more easy going and loving... that's how you know you're on the right track. Allah doesn't delay an answer for no reason. You have to tie your camel and do your part. ⁣
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You have to up level. ⁣
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Your part includes healing what's happening within you ✨⁣
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P.s If you're looking to up-level to call in your deepest desires, + would like 1-1 coaching support, message me directly to book in a free coaching call or click on the link in the bio 💁🏻‍♀️✨
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Limited spaces apply 💗

Your dream dua/ the next stage of your life requir

Your dream dua/ the next stage of your life requires the next level version of you, are you showing up as her? ✨⁣⁣
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Emotionally + physically + energetically + are you embodying the kind of woman who has her deepest dua's come to life? ✨⁣⁣
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💗 If you want to get married, are you actually ready for it? It's time to throw away those scruffy pyjamas, amp up your self-care and carry yourself as a married woman. Why? Because it's a leap of faith. It's showing Allah with your actions that you're open and ready to receive your soul mate. What would you do differently as a married women? You'd feel emotionally secure, you'd take care of yourself better, you'd release any fears/ emotional wounds that hold you back from being vulnerable and loving to your husband. That's how you want to show up today. ⁣⁣
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💗 If you want financial abundance, are you avoiding your bank account? Are you thanking Allah daily for all the money and provisions that come into your life? Do you respect the money that you do have? (i.e. by not throwing it away on things that you don't even want or being careless with it). What would the sassy, feminine, financially abundant queen within you do? She'd appreciate her wealth (be it through herself or others). She'd give and invest without fear because she knows that Allah is providing for her. She'd show up for her work. She wouldn't be bother about what people think. Are you showing as the woman who can receive and sustain the kind of money she wants? ⁣⁣
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💗If you want to radiate love and be emotionally free, are you still binging on reality TV dramas? Are you following social media dramas about so and so influencer? One of the very feminine qualities that I love so much is the quality of being care free, easy going. Where you're genuinely not interested in other people's lives. You're doing your own thing, fluttering in your own lane. Not a care in the world. The energy where nobody can hurt or interrupt your peace of mind because you have Allah... Continued in the comments below ✨

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